Our little miss S is entering her terrific yet terrible two stage. She loves to play and have a great old time, with no consideration of scheduling or appropriateness (ie. chasing after her to get her pants or jacket on before we need to go out). She can charm any aunty/uncle into playing with her and is not shy about it (demanding...but knows what she wants) The terrible part is managing the tantrums, how to best discipline her when she is testing her boundaries and dealing with her independence (ie. wanting what she wants when she wants it...)
It is truly the most challenging part of being a parent and tiring too. I have realized that I have to be more patient with her. Many times, I have lost my cool and felt terrible afterwards. Many moms tell me this is very normal but I think I still need to work at being more patient despite how frustrated I feel. Personally, I believe that kids act up as a way to get our attention so a strong negative reaction will just further demonstrate that they have pushed the right 'attention' button.
Month 26: memories to remember
Bedtime routine - after reading, we would sing the zoom, zoom, zoom song that allows us to zoom her into her bed. She loves it and can say the last word of each phrase and countdown with us plus wants us to zoom her teddy into bed too =) Once in bed, we would sing, "If you're happy and you know it" and "Twinkle, twinkle little star" and then finally we will end with a prayer and we can finally say good night and leave the room.
She can read the Sandra Bonyton, "Blue hat, Green hat" with our prompting on the word. It's amazing hearing her voice. I've noticed that she can say the last word of each sentence in a few books. She also seems to switch the wording in her simple phrases such as, "tv watch" or "baby sit". She is developing a bilingual vocabulary so certain words are said either in Chinese or English. She also is confused with the pronouns, you and me so when you point at Sofia's photo and ask her who that is, she will say, "you" when it should be "me". She can't say her name but refers to herself as "miu miu" which is our nickname for her.
We were watching the "Baby can read" DVD today and I was surprised how many of the words she knew and how she was able to mimic what the kids did in the video. We only showed her the video a handful of times when she was younger but she can definitely enjoy it more now.
She is into taking care of her teddy and mimicking what mom/dad does on a daily basis (ie. wash dishes, take baby to potty, wash hands, eat and drink) and dancing to any song with a beat!
Miu Miu, what would we do without you? =)